Find Peace of Mind While Dating Online
Who we are
Our Mission
Navigating the dating world can be overwhelming, whether you're a veteran or have recently experienced a major life change. Our mission is to give you peace of mind by performing comprehensive research on the people you match with. We ensure you're equipped with the knowledge to make safe and informed decisions, so you can confidently embrace the next chapter of your dating journey.
Let us help you focus on finding genuine connections, while we handle the rest.
What we offer
We provide comprehensive reports that uncovers key details and possible red flags including:
- Criminal history
- Divorce records
- Real estate investments
- Professional summary and income assessment
- Political affiliations
- Educational background
- Social media footprint
Monthly Subscription Plans
Essential Safety Plan
Ultimate Safety Concierge
Essential Safety Plan
Peace of Mind, One Check at a Time.
Get a thorough background check once a month to protect your heart—and your future with:
- One detailed background check every month ensures you're informed and in control.
- Uncover red flags before it's too late with our comprehensive reports.
- Perfect for occasional daters who value safety without compromise.
Start protecting yourself today for just $75/month. Your peace of mind is worth it.
Active Dater Plan
Ultimate Safety Concierge
Essential Safety Plan
Stay Safe, Stay Confident.
For those who date actively, our safety plan gives you the tools to protect yourself in today’s fast-paced dating world with:
- Three comprehensive checks monthly to match your dating lifestyle.
- Reports delivered within 48-72 hours—because your time matters.
- Priority processing and personalized consultations to guide your dating journey.
Feel confident with every date—join the
Active Dater Plan today for $150/month.
Ultimate Safety Concierge
Ultimate Safety Concierge
Ultimate Safety Concierge
The VIP Way to Date Safely.
Your personal safety concierge for modern dating. More search power, expedited results, and expert guidance tailored to you with:
- Five background checks with priority turnaround times (24-48 hours).
- Work directly with a dedicated safety specialist for personalized advice.
- Gain deeper insights with custom investigations and exclusive VIP perks.
Take control of your dating life for $225/month. Sign up now for exclusive access, limited spots are available due to demand.
One Time Check
One Check, Total Clarity.
Scheduled for a meet-up but something feels off?
Get a comprehensive report with:
- Key public records, including criminal history, marital status, and any red flags.
- A thorough scan of public profiles to identify inconsistencies, hidden relationships, or questionable activity.
- A concise, easy-to-read summary highlighting any potential concerns so you can make informed decisions.
- 3-5 business day turnaround.
- Expedited 24 hour turnaround option available for additional fee at check-out.
First Impressions Matter
Let us help you put your best foot forward and boost your chances of finding love.
Make your dating app profile stand out with our 90 minute First Impressions Matter package. Our expert team will review and refine your profile to highlight your best qualities, ensuring you attract the right matches.
From photos to bio tips, we provide real-time, live advice via virtual meetings. With our guidance, you’ll feel confident and ready to make an unforgettable impression.
Frequently Asked Questions
We offer two main services: research and dating profile reviews.
Our research membership services are custom, individualized, and provide you with a full report on each potential partner that verifies marital status, criminal history, education, professional experience, investments, and much more.
Our profile reviews, or "First Impressions Matter" package, will ensure you're sending the right vibes to attract the right partner. If you're having trouble matching with the right people, let us take a look at what you're putting out there and tweak it so your best foot, face, or flirty headline is forward.
No, there is no limit to how many searches you can run through ValiDate. Our methodology is proprietary and designed to ensure your're getting the full picture of who you're communicating with and potentially meeting in person! Not all dates are created equal, however, and just because they check out on paper doesn't mean they're your forever partner. We're with you till the end and will do our best to help you vet as many potential love interests as it takes.
Monthly memberships are billed automatically every 30 days. Each plan includes a set number of background searches per month, and any unused searches for the "Active Dater" and "Ultimate Safety Concierge" packages roll over for up to three months. You can cancel anytime before your next billing cycle to avoid further charges.
Absolutely! We implore the utmost discretion when running searches and only report information that's publicly available online. We aren't private eyes or detectives. We're like that one friend who can hunt down anything about anyone in 2.5 seconds. Our mission is to ensure you aren't tricked, catfished, or lied to by your matches. Let us help!
ValiDate was founded by two college roommates turned lifelong partners-in-crime (the legal kind, of course). They’ve been through it all—bad haircuts, worse boyfriends, and more than a few nights analyzing text messages like FBI agents.
One got married in her mid-20s, thinking she had it all figured out—until life threw a plot twist, and she found herself back on the dating scene at 40, armed with a skeptical eyebrow and a finely tuned BS detector. The other spent her 20s and early 30s in the trenches of dating apps, surviving ghosting, love-bombing, and enough awkward first dates to write a sitcom. Thankfully, she found her perfect match on Bumble—proof that miracles do exist.
With one newly single and the other happily married, 2023 became the year of strategic dating missions. While one friend swiped, chatted, and navigated the wild world of modern romance, the other—armed with elite research skills and a sixth sense for spotting red flags—became the ultimate wingwoman. From deep dives into sketchy LinkedIn profiles to uncovering a “single” guy’s very real wife, they realized something: every dater needs a trusted sidekick.
💡 Cue the light bulb moment!
"Why doesn't a service like this exist?" they thought. So, they built it.
Now, with ValiDate, you can swipe smarter, date safer, and spend less time decoding red flags. Because dating should be fun, not a full-time investigation.
Cheers to safe dating and finding your perfect match—without the surprises. 🥂
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