Who we are

ValiDate is a custom research and match vetting service. Our mission is to arm you with available information on potential love interests so you can decide who to pursue and whom to pass on. We are not a dating app, dating service, or private investigators. We are, however, savvy researchers who can find just about anything about anyone if it's publicly available online. 

We offer two main services: research and dating profile reviews. 

Our research services are custom, and individualized, and provide you with a full report on each potential partner that verifies marital status, criminal history, education, professional experience, investments, and much more. 

Our profile reviews, or "First Impressions Matter" package, will ensure you're sending the right vibes to attract the right partner. If you're having trouble matching with the right people, let us take a look at what you're putting out there and tweak it so your best foot, face, or flirty headline is forward.

ValiDate was founded by two college roommates turned lifelong friends who've navigated love's unpredictable waters. One married young and re-entered the dating scene at 40 after a divorce, while the other found her perfect match in her mid-30s after years of dating.

With one fresh off a divorce and the other happily married to her Bumble match, they bring firsthand experience of the rollercoaster that is modern dating. Their corporate backgrounds honed their people-research skills, which proved invaluable in evaluating potential partners.

Our mission? To empower women as they embark on new beginnings, equipping them with the tools and confidence to conquer the dating world.

No, there is no limit to how many searches you can run through valiDate. Our methodology is proprietary and designed to ensure your're getting the full picture of who you're communicating with and potentially meeting in person! Not all dates are created equal, however, and just because they check out on paper doesn't mean they're your forever partner. We're with you till the end and will do our best to help you vet as many potential love interests as it takes.

Look, folks. We have been doing this for longer than we care to admit, and are really really good at it. While the information we provide is publicly available to anyone, we know everywhere to search, how to mute the noise, and can turn around reports faster than Taylor releases new albums. Think of us like a personal shopper... we curate and deliver your exact needs vs. you searching 97 websites trying to find what you're looking for. 

Absolutely! We implore the utmost discretion when running searches and only report information that's publicly available online. We aren't private eyes or detectives. We're like that one friend who can hunt down anything about anyone in 2.5 seconds. Our mission is to ensure you aren't tricked, catfished, or lied to by your matches. Let us help!